You Complete You

"Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you or makes you happy."

-Robert Tew

I believe it's fair to say that in everyone's life, there will at least be a time that you feel that your presence is no longer of significance or importance to people that you thought is significant or important to you. It could be your spouse, the person you're seeing, good friends of 8-10 years and et cetera. But that's okay. 

If such relationships no longer make you feel that you mean something and it's pointless to even put in effort to try anymore then respect yourself enough and pull yourself out of this relationship. I mean, provided that you really did try. There's only so many times a person can be pushed aside until they feel worthless. And before, you're left with nothing but a shell, get yourself out of this toxic relationship and not feel bad about it. Don't let the duration of the relationship stop you from putting an end to it. Don't be reluctant to do it, not even a bit. 

I mean, a relationship is mutual. It goes both ways. When it's just one sided, it's no longer a healthy one so there is really no point in keeping it. 

Also, a lot of people are reluctant to put an end to it because they're afraid that they'll feel empty inside after they've ended it. But here's the thing that people often forget, you don't need anyone to complete you. You complete yourself. You came into this world alone and it's okay to get the hell of this place alone. Ultimately, it's your life. No one should have any right to make you feel terrible. If they do not know how to appreciate you then tell them right in the face, 'your lose' and walk away. I mean, come on, love yourself enough to realise that you deserve to be treated right and not be put down over and over again.

Getting out of such situations doesn't mean ending it completely. Such ends can be on good terms. From spouse to friends, person you're seeing to friends, good friends to friends. I mean if you're just gonna end it completely, it probably seems kinda sad given that you all have been through so much. So, smile and nod at each other when you bump into each other on the street. It saves you the awkwardness of the one second eye contact and the trouble of running away. Also, it's always better to have a friend than an enemy. 

All in all, just remember that you are as important as anyone. In fact, you are the most important to yourself and you should never put your self-worth and happiness in anyone's hand. Always love yourself enough to get out of relationships that are turning/turned bad. 

^ that's a reminder to always love yourself, my friends. Also, if you're going through such phase and happens to bump into my blog post, don't take my blog post so literally. Give it much thoughts before you act. I'm not liable for any consequences! Also, that's how you do it. A rant with a positive vibe.  ;-)

Anyway, again, an overdue entry. I met up with Clarissa and Jin Li earlier this year which is in January. It has been like, what, 3 years since we met up with Clarissa and I like this. Even though we haven't been meeting up for so long, there's no awkward connection or any sort of things like this among us. We've been friends for more or less 14 years now and I like how we are still keeping in touch with each other. I like how things are now among us. Thank you everyone for making the effort. 

@sasa1718 very pretty

A photo posted by Jia Sheng (@fongjiasheng) on May 25, 2012 at 6:05am PDT

3 years ago.

So Jin Li, the miss hipster, actually wanted to go Strangers at 47 to try their pumpkin cheesecake or something like that but Clarissa suggested that we go Polpetta for meatballs since her friend is working there so Polpetta we went. It was sorta embarrassing tho when we reached there cause I bumped into a few of my unimates and it was awkward as hell. But they left after awhile and we stayed and chatted for a few hours and it was all good.

Me spaghetti.

They gave you this menu that you can mix and match the toppings, sauce and base. I ordered spaghetti with cheese and meat balls or something like that, I don't really remember. The price is really reasonable. My spaghetti was only about RM13. At first I saw it in hungrygowhere and was doubting the portion but it turned out to be quite big and filling.

If you ask me, I'm gonna say that this place is really not bad and highly recommended. It's along Sprint Highway at Boulevard 10. It's the same turn you take from Sprint Highway when you're going to Lala Cheong.

Great lunch with great people!
From left: Me, Clarissa, Jin Li

You can get all the infos about Polpetta in their facebook page. Click here to be redirected.

Also, I'm aware of the Anwar being convicted issue and sorry for my ignorance for not commenting on it. However, I think I will not be commenting on any political issue until I'm a practicing lawyer because right now, Malaysia has this Sedition Act which suppresses the Freedom of Speech and until I'm a lawyer, I won't be sure how to get around it.  

2015

Next Stop, 2015!

I know, I know. It's a tradition for me to do a New Year's resolution post every year BUT this year, screw it. I'm not gonna do it. I'm also not gonna do a year review like I did last year cause I'm lazy like that. I know I've been MIA for an entire year but I'm really lazy so I'm just gonna highlight all the important things that happened this year.

2014 Happened 
► Finished A-level
► Worked in Starbucks as a barista (I know how to make coffee now)
► Started degree (yes, I'm officially a law student now)
► Got a car of my own! (my dad bought it)
► Was an extra in an advertisement
► Grown a lot as a person (I'm not as self-conscious as I used to be)

That's probably all the things you'll need to know. But truly, I'm very proud of myself. How people view me really doesn't bother as much anymore. I've learned to accept how I am and what people think is irrelevant. But then again, this is a pro and also a con at the same time. Now that, I'm more accepting of myself, I feel like I'm not putting in as much effort in bettering myself anymore. I'm just always like 'screw them this is how i am whether you like it or not'. So... idk. I think what's important is that I'm aware of this and I will work on it!

And, no more resolution this year. Starting from this year. I figured they're pretty pointless. I don't achieve them anyway. If I must have, I think I'd say I want to:
✌ manage my time better (more self-discipline tbh)
✌ continue improving myself
✌ just have a great and enjoyable year!

That's all.

Also, I think I'm starting Musical Monday. I'm gonna post a music/lyric video of a song that I like each Monday so I'll blog constantly and also, to let you all (whoever that still read my blog) know more about the genre I like and discover great music together. But idk, I'm still thinking about it cause if I did, this blog might turn into a music blog and I'm not sure if that's what I want. Anyhow, you'll find out next Monday!

Last but not least, favor needed! I'm about 19 now and I don't want to always ask my parents for money so whenever you visit my blog, could you please click on the ads in my blog and check them out? Please and thank you so so so much!

NYE 2015

It's 2015! HAPPY NEW YEAR!

I usually spend my New Year's Eve at home watching telly and counting down with my parents but this year (is new year's eve considered last or this year?) I spent my New Year's Eve a little differently. I spent it with a couple of friends. Two. Two couples of friends. So altogether there's five of us. Don't worry they're not dating, I'm not the light bulb. 

So the night before, I was kinda skeptical whether to go or not cause on one hand, I just want to stay home and chill and on the other, I don't really want to stay home. But I decided to step out of my comfort zone and went anyway . 

The outing was an entire day in Kuala Lumpur. Tiring, I know. Our first destination was Acme Bar and Coffee. It's located in Troika, Jalan Binjai and about 10-12 minutes walk from KLCC. When we reached there, we were asked if we made a reservation and we didn't so we were told to wait for about an hour. But after waiting for about 15 minutes, we were offered a table for four. We took it anyway cause it's quite spacious, can fit 4-5 people but not big enough when all the food arrive. Their plates are really big. The ambiance there is ok la, standard for these types of cafe but they still had their Christmas decorations on so it's quite nice la. 

We ordered Smoked Duck Breast Pasta and it was oh-so-good. It's spaghetti carbonara with smoked duck and topped with Parmesan. They didn't mention this in the menu but there's BACON also. The carbonara sauce was really creamy but a bit too salty. We finished everything including the sauce. 

We also ordered Baby Lobster Fettuccine. Ok this is what they wrote in their menu, it's 'baby lobster with spiced saffron cream sauce, asparagus, capsicum, beans and dried thyme'. But really I think it's just curry fettuccine. Lol I know, I know, I'm downgrading their food but cannot blame me ok, I don't get to taste such atas food all the time so I don't know how to appreciate 'spiced saffron cream sauce'. The baby lobster though. I'm allergic to shellfish but I had to try the lobster and really, it's good. It's really good.

Then we ordered Alo Moana Salmon Fillet. To quote the menu again, it's 'marinated salmon on Japanese dressing with cherry tomato vinaigrette and crushed basil new potato. Don't ask me what's 'vinaigrette', I don't know what's that. This one is just normal la, nothing very special about it. One of my friend, Krystal, was like there's scallop in it so I went and poked every white stuff on the plate. Then every time, I poked something soft, I assumed it's scallop but it turned out to be potato. Then at last, I found one super soft and very confidently assured them it's scallop and turned out to be potato again. So conclusion, especially to chao Krystal, THERE IS NO SCALLOP IN IT.

The next dish that we ordered is Aloha Pizzadillas. Again, from the menu, there's 'smoked turkey breast, pineapple tidbits, onion and fresh capsicum on herbs cream sauce and mozzarella cream' on the pizza. This one also nothing special, normal only. The smoked turkey breast was chopped into cubes and I thought it was ham and told everyone it was ham. Sorry to downgrade your food again, Acme. I really cannot tell the difference. There's also more capsicum on it than any other thing. But according to Krystal, the mozzarella is 'oh my god'.

For dessert, we ordered Sizzling Brownie & Oreo Ice Cream. Ok so this is how it's like, it's a brownie on a hot plate, a very hot plate with oreo ice cream on top and topped with a quarter of strawberry. Honestly, I can't really taste the oreo in the ice cream but that's not really important cause what's important is the brownie. So this is how they serve this, a waiter will bring this over to you and he will pour the chocolate on to the brownie right in front of you. The chocolate will hit the hot plate and there will be smoke all over. Basically, that's that. This dessert is not bad but a little too sweet and trust me, you can't finish it alone so share with somebody. There will be some burnt brownie at the bottom but I like the most cause it's kinda crunchy.

All in all, I had a very satisfying meal and I do recommend you to go and try. Click here to be redirected to their website.

Then we walked to Avenue K and the girls shopped while I followed them around. After that, we took a train to Times Square. An LRT and a monorail to be exact. The journey costs RM4. Believe it or not, we got lost in the Masjid Jamek or Hang Tuah station lol. We went into a train only to find out it's the wrong train and we quickly ran out. My friend, Juo Yen almost got squashed cause the door was closing. Thank god she was skinny and managed to slither her way out. To add on to our embarrassment, there was this couple of angmohs following us assuming we were going to the same place as them. But at last, thanks to yours truly, we found our way to the other side of the platform.

Berjaya Times Square is something like Bangkok's Pratunam Mall. They sell really cheap clothes, shoes, accessories, bags, toys and other stuff. Berjaya Times Square is also famous for its theme park. The lower floors in Time Square sell all the branded stuff and the upper floors sell all the cheap stuff. Our sole purpose to go there was to look for cheap snapback caps for Meng Yee and I but we were all too worn out from all the walking and we had to sit down for a drink. In case, you're curious, I did find plenty of stalls selling cheap snapbacks. They're about RM 20-25 but none of them look appealing to me so I didn't get any.

In the evening, we took a train back to KLCC cause Meng Yee parked her car there. Guess what, the parking fee was RM30.20! Crazy right!!! Luckily, there was five of us so not too expensive la after sharing the bill. Then we went to Rendezvous Steak Garden for dinner and countdown. It is an open air restaurant with plants everywhere and it was dark so logically there's plenty of mosquitoes la. It's sort of like Ming Tian in Kelan Jaya except there's no hawker stalls. It was really dark so I didn't take much photos. The serving time there is really fast though. Within five minutes our food were on our table. The food there is above average and the price is half of Acme's but also not as good as Acme's la. If you're looking for cheap and good food, this is definitely a great place to check out. According to Facebook, some of the similar places are Tony Roma's and The Ship so this is somewhat a cheap alternative. Click here to check out their website.

Before the clock struck 12, we were counting down except for Juo Yen and Krystal. This chao Krystal some more dare to say failed countdown. The people in the restaurant also damn unsporting one lo, no one joined us when we were counting down and when we shouted 'Happy New Year' everyone looked at us like we're some aliens. But all in all, great way to start a new year!

May all of you have a wonderful year ahead!

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P.S: Sorry the pictures of the food are quite bad because I got no skill, the lighting is not good (too bright, overexposed) and bad angle.
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Clamped

What on earth? My blog had been dead since March and people are still visiting this shit lol. I had 3 views today and 3 views yesterday. 

Y'all making me feeling embarrassed with all the saddy sally posts on my blog. 

It's Christmas Eve!! I don't even celebrate Christmas but it's the most joyful time of the year! Guess it's the most joyful time of the year because people are receiving presents. :'D

(Come on blogger, it's 2014 going to 2015 and you still don't have emoticons? Seriously? Please keep up with trends. People actually communicate using emojis now so please do something.)

(Oh I just googled and apparently you can add emoticons to your blog by just tweaking the html but sorry lah, I'm too lazy to edit now. It should be there by default anyway.) 

Looking back my previous posts, they are all actually very gloomy? But fear no more, I don't think I will have as many emotional posts as before starting from... NOW! 2014 had been a great year for me. I personally feel like I have grown a lot as a person. I've become a lot more happier and have a better view on whatever that I'm doing.

From now on, I will blog more about my life. Talking about life, I don't think I'm a car person. Like I don't think cars like me a lot. Just recently my car got clamped. I don't even park in my college anymore and when I decided to park there for a day, the freaking parking management clamped my car wtf man. To be fair there was a clear 'RESERVED' sign right on top of me and a poster about being clamped on the pillar beside me but you tell me, who look up when they are driving especially when you are looking for parking. You'd just be like 'oh thank god I found a parking' and then for what you paste the poster on the left pillar when the entrance is on the right. You think people will purposely walk to the left just to see your petty poster? For your information, I'm not the only who kena before. According to my friend, a lot of people kena before. 

When I went to my car park and realised my car was clamped, the first thought that came to my mind was my sister. My sister is the strong independent kind of woman. Her car got clamped once and she is just really good at arguing and the guard just unclamped her car and let her go without paying. So I thought I could be like her and I went to the car park management office very confidently. The car park management office is somewhere hidden in the car park and if you want people to pay then at least build it at somewhere that is easier to find lah. Anyway, this very nice guard came out and dealt with me but he was like 'no lah, I cannot just unclamped your car. It's in the record already'. Ok lah, understood but at least give a discount lah and he was like 'no lah, i really can't do anything'. Ok, understood, you are just a Bangladeshi trying to make a living so I insisted to talk to the manager but the manager was too chicken to even come out and talk to a student. I saw her through the window shaking her head. 

Then no choice loh, I had to pay the full amount but I really didn't have money on me. I shoved him the card and he was like 'oh we don't take cards'. Hello! You want to charge so expensive but you don't take cards. You think everyone who park there drag an ATM machine wherever they go ah. Luckily, I had a few friends with me and one of my friends borrowed me. After I paid, I just parked there for the entire day. At least make my money worth. 

But all in all, it was a good life lesson lah. Thinking back, it reminded me of The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch.

"Now that I'm an adult, you'll never catch me with less than $200 in my wallet. I want to be prepared in case I need it. Sure, I could lose my wallet or it could be stolen. But for a guy making a reasonable living, $200 is an amount worth risking. By contrast, not having cash on hand when you need it is potentially a much bigger problem."

Randy Pausch, The Last Lecture

It's funny how even after reading bout all these great life tips, I still don't apply them. But ever since then, I started bringing more money out. Also, I've learnt to be more attentive. Personally, I think every mistake is a great life lesson and we just have to learn from it.

Also, talking about Christmas, I had Secret Santa with two different group of friends this year and both my Secret Santas know me kinda well. I didn't put anything on my wishlist but both of them got me stuff that I wanted.

Secret Santa #1 - Susan (the one in purple)

Susan got me a Nutella & Go (replaced by the soft toy cause I've already eaten it) and two phone cases!

Secret Santa #2 - Meng Yee (the one in white)

Meng Yee got me this sweater!

I said my Secret Santas know me very well cause I was just asking around where to get the Nutella & Go but being the kiamsiap me, I didn't buy it and she got it for me (she wouldn't know I was asking around cause she's in another campus); I was also asking my mum and another friend whether I should get a sweater like the one Meng Yee got me and then Meng Yee bought it for me (she also wouldn't know cause she wouldn't ask my mum and I only told my other friend after she bought).

The CPY also made me a birthday gift. My birthday was a month ago so awwwww, right? I know. Thanks friends!

If you know me, you'd know what that symbolizes. 

Merry Christmas and Happy Holiday Everyone!! 

Talking about Happy Holiday, this has gotta be my worst holiday ever. My holiday is filled with nothing but assignments and some occasional outings if I managed to meet my target.

*yes this post is very delayed. It had been in my draft since Christmas Eve.

Isolation

Hello all. Nothing new, I just got bad again, since Wednesday. Why did I get bad? Easy, cause I had been thinking. I really don't know what is wrong with me, you know. I can't even tolerate myself sometimes and I just really want to thank those who have stuck around long enough to get used to my annoyance. I know with me constantly being like that, people will eventually leave and I swear none of this is intentional. So, really sorry and thank you.

You might not have thought of this but that day that I started to get bad, I was actually kind of suicidal but I'm glad it only lasted for awhile. I had the how and the why already but I haven't had the when. I mean it sucks to feel so worthless, it sucks to even think that you are no one's best. & I realised this, if you hold on long enough, God will have His own way in enlightening you. I recently just got this book "The Time Traveller" by Mitch Albom. If I were to take my life away that night, I wouldn't have the chance to read this chapter that I feel like is solely based on me. It's nothing much but having something you can relate to when you are feeling all so lonely inside is a really big consolation. It's like being given a really long tight hug only that you are all wrapped up by words - wonder of words. This is why I like reading so much. TV shows and movies might be entertaining but words in novels can do wonders. You're always given the chance to live different lives. Anyway, something bad happened to me again the next day and I came across some really terrible man made disasters articles. Then that was it, I've gotten so sick of humans. I don't even know how I'm gonna comprehend all that. That was when I decided I need to take a break from all the social websites and people in general. I deactivated everything and muted all my chats. I do not regret this decision.

"But hurting ourselves to inflict pain on others is just another cry to be loved."

Also, my primary intention was to see how much I'm worth to others, who would realise that I'm gone. But then I thought that it was really stupid and I just let it slipped. I don't even care now.

I call this isolating myself from people process the Cleansing Therapy. I intend to clear all the bads in me. I started on Thursday and I was actually really upset that no one noticed the first few days and that's when I stopped. I told myself that I don't need anyone to prove my worthiness. Just in case you want to know, only until Sunday that someone has finally realised I had been gone from the cyber world. If this takes so long, I wonder how long will it take for people to find my corpse when I die. But I don't even care anymore. Those were just-sayings.

Anyway, on Saturday, I woke up to the missing MH370 aeroplane news. I got so worried for all the passengers and felt so sick inside. I felt so bad for even thinking about dying when there are people on the plane that really want to live and probably don't have a choice. I'm not saying that there will be no survivors, whatever I'm saying is hypothetical. I'm genuinely worried for the passengers and crews on the plane. The plane is still not found yet and I pray and hope everyday that they will all be found dead or alive, preferably alive.

During my Cleansing Therapy, I thought a lot, about how to cure myself, how to fix all the misplugged plugs in me. I had been playing this game on my phone which you can pick your own actions and the story of the game will be based on the actions you picked. I had been very honest with what I would actually do if I were the character and it finally reached a part where another character told me, indirectly, that I'm self-centered. That explains so much. I always thought I'm badly accompanied but in fact, I'm a self-centered little shit. I want the whole world to revolve around me. Probably that's why I feel so upset when I realised I mean nothing to people but don't everyone want to mean something to somebody. I don't know. Also, I feel like I need to be more tolerable with some people. Yes, the things they said, the judgments they made might be sickening but they have put up with me for so long and it's only fair for me to do the same. On top of that, when they make snark remarks, let them be; when they sickens you with their affections towards others, let them be. After all this is the training I'll need to be a better listener and this is good training and at the end of the day, you are only answerable to yourself. I am only aiming to be a better person and not until I'm a better person than now that I can bring someone else up with me.

"When we are most alone is when we embrace another's loneliness." 

I've always thought that I was badly accompanied and I googled toxic friends. &who knows, most of the toxic friend's traits fit me better than any puzzle pieces. I have to pick the devils inside me out one by one and it's gonna take time and I don't mind. Rome was not built, then demolished, then built again in one day.

I'm not gonna lie. This Cleansing Therapy has worked really well. I felt a lot better than that day now. Maybe it's just time or it could really be that this worked. I don't know but I actually felt really good after all these isolation. I feel like I'm ready to face the world again. I might continue doing this occasionally. I'm still considering whether I'm gonna reactivate my Twitter and Facebook or not. Having those deactivated, I feel like I have a lot more time in my hands now. They are like leeches of time lol, sucking all the time out of me.The only social websites I'm still using now is Tumblr, Instagram and Blogger.

I can't stress how grateful I am to have friends and family for putting up with my shits. Thank you.

On the other hand, I've gone through my New Year's Resolution and I'm a little satisfied with my progress. I'm actually able to stick to some of them and it's good. Brace yourself, a new me is coming.

On a side note, I just received two text messages from my college today regarding my last Pre-U exam. I got no idea what happened. This three months literally flew by and exam is like in a month and I haven't started studying. Jia Sheng just being Jia Sheng, Jia Sheng need to shed into a new Jia Sheng.

The photo looked great on my phone but now mmmmmm.....

Also, I strongly recommend you to read "The Time Keeper" by Mitch Albom. It's a really good book.

"When you are measuring life, you are not living it."

Chinese Neeeeiighhh Year

If I can get a medal in flappy bird, I can achieve anything in life.

Flappy bird is this very famous in trend game right now and if you haven't played before, go play now! You'll have the time of your life!!!

Happy Chinese New Year All!!!

Why Chinese Neeeeiighhh Year? Cause it's the year of Horse(zodiac)! 

2014

Yunnan, China - 2013

Now that I'm done with my Year End Review, I'm gonna do my New Year's Resolution. I'm not really sure how I'm gonna do this. I don't want to make it just a normal list though so I guess I'm just gonna keep on typing and let the ideas flow in.

Ok how am I gonna name this year? Last year was The Year to Find Your Real Self and I guess this year will be Still Searching. Lol no I'm serious, I still don't know what I really want to be. Hence, Still Searching.

Ok ok ok what do I want to achieve in 2014....... This is not easy - figuring what you want to achieve in a year within such short time limit. I'm gonna attempt still, if I thought of anything else, I'd add it to my mental list.

Resolution 

#1  Stop Procrastinating [time management]

- I figured I can't live like that anymore if I really want to succeed in life. Gotta cut all the procrastinating crap and focus on what I wanna do and do it.

#2  Get at least 2 A's for A level 

- This too goes back to procrastinating. I'm pretty sure I can do it if I stop procrastinating. Have trust in self!

#3  Spend more time with my family

- If I have choice between my friends and family, I gotta choose family. I realize that everyone is growing up and living their own life and my parents will then be left alone and I know how lonely feels so I want to be the reason why they are not alone.

#4  Read more

- Read more study materials and novels. Novels are the best stress reliever and if there's anything I need to go to to release stress, it'd be novels.

#5  Try out new things

- There is no reason to live if there's nothing new to look towards to. Do extreme stuff, go on adventures. Do not come out with fictional what-ifs and buts for self. Never belittles one's ability.

#6  Gain new experience

- Go work! This is the only experience I'll need right now. Anyone wanna hire me?

#7  Money Management

- Financially support myself. Stop asking my parents for money and buy things with my own money. Also, I realise how bad the economy will be this year, hence, save! Save for rainy days, save for education.

#8  Go on a backpack trip

- I'm not sure if I'll be able to achieve this this year though but I'll try. I'm still looking for a right companion and still saving up. This is in my lifetime bucket list, this is a must do before I die and I WILL do this someday. #wanderlust

#9  Write

- Write. Write anything. Do lots of leisure writing. I have stopped writing essays for a year and you don't know how much I miss doing it. I wanna write a book. I don't know when I'll be able to achieve this but I probably will do it one day.

#10 Listen

- Listen more. Do more listening than talk.

#11 Be Optimistic

- I've been pessimist for so long that I've forgotten how is it like to be an optimistic. Do not magnify on the bad things but focus on the good things but not to the limit where you keep on bragging about it. Feel happy for others instead of envy. Turn every fall into a life lesson. If today is not a good day then look forward to tomorrow.

#12 Be Nice

- "Be kind for everyone is fighting a tough battle." Do not hate, there is enough hate in this world. All the fighting, all the disrespecting make me sick. If being better is all we want then hate is the number one trait we have to drop.

#13 Honesty

- Stop fearing confrontations. Don't like it, tell; like it, tell. Your opinions matter. What you think matters. Happiness can easily be achieve when you know how to handle confrontations.

#14 Stop Judging

- Who are we to judge how people look, act or live their lives. Do not judge unless you are perfect. As a matter of fact, you shouldn't judge even if you are prefect. Reality shows are the catalyst of people judging people, creating extremely high standards for people which is highly unlikely to achieve. Do not comment snark remarks about people like "she's ugly" and whatsoever. Do not objectify humans and other living beings. As much as all this judging is starting to annoy me, I can't help but admit that I, too, am constantly judging people and I have to stop. Rome is not built in a day and same goes, I'll learn to stop little by little. Also, do not make fun of something that people cannot change about themselves.

#15 Live a healthier life

- Yes, I am aware of how unhealthy my life is right now. I will start working towards a healthier body. Live a healthier lifestyle. I have to stop skipping meals and sleeping late, I know. Also, exercise more!!



That's all for now. I wanted to add in "strive for the best" but then I realised if I am able to keep to this list, I am already striving for the best. Anyway, 2014, the year for all of us to be a better person for ourselves, our family, our friends, our country and the world.